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Thinking and thankful November 22, 2007

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Such a geek for learning – shameless really. I’m watching a documentary about the history of Thanksgiving on right now as I cruise around on my laptop. But they said something that caught my attention. Between the time it was declared a national holiday by Lincoln in 1863 and the early 20th century, the work week in America was six days long. I often think of our current culture as the era of the workaholic, with people walking around permanently bent downwards checking Blackberries and texting messages. But the historian said the concept of a weekend wasn’t even common until much later. I’d never think of people living back then as workaholics – in my mind they were working that long because that’s what it took to get by. Yet, I imagine that many of today’s work-obsessed would argue that the level of their attention to work is just as necessary. Hmm…something to ponder. Anyway, in addition to a five-day work week, we’ve got much to be thankful for!

This year my mom is flying in on Friday afternoon, so we’ll be celebrating Thanksgiving on Saturday to allow plenty of time for us to cook together. It feels strange to wait, but my parents have always been so gracious in accommodating any schedule for holiday celebrations we throw their way that it’s nice to have the opportunity to return the favor. And my mom is not a shopper, so we won’t be sad to miss the after-Thanksgiving retail craziness.

Until then, we three Baileys will spend some cozy hours enjoying the sheer delight of being together – something I give thanks for every day. We’re blessed beyond measure, spoiled by our God who always gives us more than we deserve. Here’s to a holiday dedicated solely to gratitude – Happy Thanksgiving!

 

Scenes of the Crime November 18, 2007

Filed under: Uncategorized — loribailey @ 5:20 am
  • The scene: Kroger, Friday evening, dairy, snack and beverages aisles. John Denver’s, Take Me Home, Country Roads breezes through the store’s sound system, and individuals from all over the demographic spectrum can be found, not just humming, but singing the lyrics…including me. I stop myself, embarrassed, yet amused at the John Denver Gene planted deep within our generation.
  • The scene: Southlake Town Square, Saturday afternoon, kitty corner from the Container Store. After congratulating myself for navigating the cluttered sidewalks successfully, I promptly fall off of a curb. Flat on my hands and knees. I pick myself up quickly, thankful, that somehow I seemed to have found an opening in time when my clumsiness went undetected in this crowded area. Until I pull out of my parking space and see the patio full of relaxed couples enjoying sushi directly across from where the incident occurred. Dinner and a show.
  • The scene: Our living room, Thursday morning. I’m doing exercises in front of the Today show, chatting with Brian about a friend’s spending habits. After doing some easy math in my head (zeros were involved) I say, “That adds up to about $2,500 a year!” Ben, in a voice of honest parental-like astonishment, asks, “Mom did you come up with that number by yourself?!” And when Brian and I both start laughing he follows up (again completely genuine), “Well, you know, sometimes you’re not so good with the numbers.”

Just in case I ever start to think I am cool…

 

Nifty Gifties November 12, 2007

Filed under: Uncategorized — loribailey @ 4:52 am

I’ve been inspired by the gift guides on Mighty Goods lately, and then the challenge of The Holiday Shopping Carnival gave me just the incentive I needed to throw a couple of ideas out there. These are some things that we’ve given or enjoyed as gifts. (Disclaimer…my husband is a world-class gift giver. None of these are from him – they don’t belong in a list, but deserve posts of their own.)

  • Rat-a-Tat-Cat: Fun card game for ages 6+ that builds math skills on the sly. The quick playing time means you actually might be able to enjoy it more than two times a year.
  • Herbal neck wrap: Part of a de-stressing collection from a friend, this thing has saved my neck (heh! ) more than a few times. Excellent for those of us who carry all of our tension in that region.
  • L’Occitane lavender foot lotion: Slightly splurgy price, unbeatable feeling! Also part of the above-mentioned collection.
  • The Dangerous Book for Boys: So many people have talked about this, but worth revisiting this holiday season. Great for dads or boys.
  • Chocolate bag: Taking the chocolate collection to another level… Assemble a basket or gift bag with a high-quality assortment of chocolates (World Market has an outstanding selection) specifically tailored to the recipient’s tastes, and then add lots of other chocolate or brown items. I included a white chocolate hand lotion, mocha nail polish, gourmet hot chocolate, and a small brown notebook.
  • Travel backpacks: A gift for my two nieces, this was a blast to put together. I bought two smallish backpacks and filled them with lots of cool travel toys and amusements (visit Wal-Mart, Target and Cracker Barrel for small toys, check out Family Fun for clever ideas, and maybe throw in an audiobook), then I bought two small travel pillow inserts at Bed, Bath and Beyond and sewed soft flannel pillowcases for them.
  • National Geographic Kids Magazine: Brian’s sister gave Ben a subscription several years ago, and he’s asked to have it renewed ever since.
  • World Series Tape (!) from 1984: A gift for Brian in the mid-90s to celebrate the big year that our Detroit Tigers won the World Series. He loved to watch baseball, and there’s nothing better than when your hometown team wins. The funny thing about this gift? He saw a Christmas shopping list I had left out, which said, “Brian – tape.” And from that four-letter word he actually figured it out! This was more than 10 years after the event, we didn’t own anything else like it and the availability of such items on the internet was in its hatchling stage. Thankfully his powers of sneaky deduction are matched by his own incredibly creative and thoughtful gift ideas.
 

He’s outgrowing me November 8, 2007

Filed under: Uncategorized — loribailey @ 10:58 pm

Ben was missing a pair of jeans this week. A hunt through drawers and the laundry basket came up empty. Then Ben had the brilliant idea that they might have been misplaced with someone else’s stash. And there they were hanging up in my row of jeans. Brian put away the laundry this weekend, and judging by the length of the jeans (definitely not the width!), deemed them to be mine. His t-shirts are already bigger than mine. And I don’t need to lean over to hug him anymore. *sigh* It would be a lot harder if he wasn’t doing such a spectacular job at this growing up thing.